“We will be sending Joel to public school next year. We don’t think we can provide the college prep classes he needs.” Mr. Perez said with some sadness.
My standard reply was, “Are you sure?”
“Neither my wife nor I know how to teach high school math, science, and there’s no way we can teach foreign language.”
“Why do you think Joel needs a college prep course of study?
“Everyone needs to go to college, don’t they, to get a good job?”
“No, there are other options to consider.”
As the administrator of a homeschool program I had this conversation with at least one family each year. There is a prevailing myth that all of our children are destined to go to college. Otherwise they will be unemployed failures, right? However, not all kids need to go directly from high school to college. I know, I was one of those students who should have at least waited a year.
God has created each of us uniquely to serve him in different capacities. This means that there is no one way to prepare our children for the future careers. Let’s take a look at some of the options.
- College is a legitimate option
Some of our children know early on what God has planned for them. My granddaughter has not wavered from being a meteorologist since she was six years old. Even within the college option, different choices can be made.
- Community college
Often students can get those “hard” classes at community college while preparing to go to a four-year school. Many careers can begin with a two-year degree with more professional study later on.
- College at home
Many of us have a 15- or 16-year-old who has is bored with standard high school material, are ready to move on to more advanced studies, but not ready for the social demands of even a community college. Other students may choose distance learning for college so they can move at an accelerate pace. Many universities have this option available.
- Four-year college
Going to a four-year college right out of high school is a good option for some students, but not all.
- Vocational or trade school
CBS reported on October 1 that the biggest obstacle in the rebuilding effort after Hurricane Harvey is the lack of people trained in the trade skills: carpentry, electrical, plumbing, and so on. These career choices, along with many others, don’t require a college degree. Many vocational and trade schools offer practical hands-on experience and job placement.
Apprenticeships are centuries old. At one time, this was the way young people learned the necessary skills for their career choice. Apprenticeships can be formal programs through trade unions or informal arrangements with a local business.
- Short-term mission
When our child isn’t sure what God is calling them to, a short-term mission may be a way to serve others while seeking God’s plan. Many churches and youth organizations offer mission trips, which range from two weeks to one year. Often these trips are offered to high school students.
My older son started his lawn mowing, leaf raking, snow removal business at the age of 12. It actually became part of his homeschool curriculum. He decided from this experience that while he earned extra money, having his own business wasn’t for him. Other teens, however, find owning their business to be just right. These businesses later become full time occupations. We can encourage our young people who have a “crazy” idea to move forward with it. They may love or leave it. But it’s an opportunity not to be missed.
The military is now open to homeschool students. It is a viable option for both career and future college planning.
- Gap Year
A gap year, a year between high school and future education, has become so popular many organizations now have gap year programs. Often a student will use this year for travel or for trying out various career opportunities.
- Get a job
There’s nothing wrong with a full-time job immediately after high school. It may be the gap year alternative or it may become a career of choice. Sometimes these after high school jobs can lead to promotions and opportunities that students who are in college may miss.
Is it too early to start talking and thinking about future plans? No. Miiddle school is often the time our children are looking at professions they admire. Don’t discount the so-called pipe dreams of being a singer, ballot dancer, or astronaut. All those people started somewhere. I’m not sure David’s father envisioned his shepherd son being the king of Israel either.
In addition to giving our middle school aged kids opportunities to learn about various occupations, we can also be praying for and with them about God’s plan for their lives. As parents, we want to help prepare our children to listen to the voice of God and serve where God leads.
What are your middle schooler considering for plans after high school?
When she’s not tending chickens, peacocks, and donkeys, Susan K. Stewart teaches, writes, and edits non-fiction. Susan’s passion is to inspire readers with practical, real-world solutions. Her books include Science in the Kitchen and Preschool: At What Cost? plus the award-winning Formatting e-Books for Writers. You can learn more at her website www.practicalinspirations.com.